Reflecting on what worked in the past can invite more pleasure into your future. — I rank the sexual encounters I have with my husband, but probably not in the way you would expect. There’s nothing scientific about it. If sex was particularly good, or at least better than other encounters in recent memory, I’ll exclaim something like “top five” or “definitely in the top…

Strategies to eliminate insecurities and keep your head in the game — One of the most talked-about topics with couples new to the swinging lifestyle is performance anxiety. At lifestyle events, the male partner almost always sheepishly asks the more experienced swingers in attendance if the rumors about performance anxiety in the lifestyle are true. The answer is, yes. Performance anxiety is…

Don’t walk. Run. — I don’t mean to brag or anything, but I used to be really good at ignoring red flags. Like that time in college, when a boyfriend convinced me that my period was disgusting, he made it clear that anything sexual during that time of the month was off-limits. Even shower…

My best friend cheated and I told her husband. — Imagine finding out your new spouse has been cheating on you and the child you recently had together wasn’t really yours. Pretty devastating, right? To make things even worse, you quickly learn nearly all of your partner’s friends knew about it and covered for her. In this story, the pregnant…

Swinging transformed my marriage into the kind of partnership most couples only dream about. — There are many misconceptions floating around about swingers and couples that choose to open up their relationship. Swinging lifestylers are often labeled, judged, and shamed for their choice to participate in non-monogamy. As an active member of the swinging lifestyle, I’ve learned to let the jokes and half-truths slide. I…

Like my wedding night, when my husband went for the wrong hole. — Sex can be hot, romantic, and just plain breathtaking. It can also be awkward, weird, and downright hilarious. It’s a little like childbirth. One moment you’re unknowingly pushing out poop in front of a horde of doctors and nurses, and seconds later, you’re birthing a miracle into the world. …

Tips for safe and sexy breast play, without all the pain and sensitivity. — My husband is a boob guy. He loves sucking, biting, licking, and fondling them whenever he gets a chance. Before him, I wasn’t really into nipple play and underestimated the pleasure it could bring. …

I avoided receiving oral for a decade, please don’t make the same mistake I did. — I’m a massive fan of oral sex, but I always used to get weird whenever a partner wanted to reciprocate. Anytime a partner would start to move their mouth towards my lower hemisphere, every muscle in my body would tense. …

The corporate Rolodex recently left behind nearly 3,000,000 women and LinkedIn makes that fact painfully obvious. — Many moms, myself included, were forced out of the workforce when Covid hit in early 2020. We have kids that are too young to fend for themselves and jobs that were either unwilling or unable to accommodate working from home. With the hope that most schools across the country will…