Our First Threesome Was Both Spontaneous And Surprising

I didn’t believe in unicorns until one showed up and offered herself to us.

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The night started like most other date nights. The babysitter was 15 minutes late and we had to rush out the door to make it to a dinner reservation.

I was carrying my sassiest red heels in one hand and my phone in the other as we jumped in the car and headed downtown. We hadn’t been able to sneak away for a date night in months, and we were both buzzing with excitement for an adult night out at our favorite restaurant.

Little did I know that would be the night my lifelong fantasy of being pursued by a woman would come true.

The phone call

On our way to dinner, Alexa, a new swinging lifestyle friend messaged to ask about our weekend plans. We connected with her and her husband online about a month ago, and we had our first date the weekend before. Because of our strict “no play on the first date” policy, we hadn’t played yet.

Alexa and I had spent the last few weeks flirting and exchanging sexy pictures in a group message with our husbands. It was an unspoken game we played — simultaneously driving our husbands crazy and turning them on. There was definitely chemistry between the four of us and we were all looking forward to exploring it.

A welcome surprise

Alexa was beautiful and mischievous. She wanted my husband, but she made it clear she was interested in me too.

After exchanging a few messages on the way to dinner, she told me her husband (Mark — who is tall, dark, and oh-so-sexy) was out of town for the weekend and she was headed out to dinner with some friends.

I told her about the dinner reservation we were running late for and we quickly agreed to coordinate our schedules soon. She agreed and threw out some dates that might work — then went on to say that she and Mark had been talking all week about the dirty things they wanted to do to me.

That was hot and gave me some seriously yummy tingles. I responded simply with a “yes, please” and slipped my phone into my purse as we walked into the crowded restaurant.

Our table wouldn’t be ready for another 20–30 minutes, so we grabbed a table in the corner of the attached bar and we settled in. After we finished our first drink and our waiter hadn’t come back to offer a second round, I headed to the bar to grab us each another drink. As I stood with my back to the entrance of the restaurant, I felt someone walk up behind me and gently place a hand on the small of my back.

I jumped a little before turning around and meeting eyes with Alexa. Her appearance was bound to make the night a little more interesting. Thank god I spent the extra time getting ready tonight.

Once I got over the immediate shock of seeing her standing there, we hugged each other in greeting and she explained that she was headed to meet friends at a bar down the street, but since she was walking right by she thought she’d stop and say hi first.

I told her my hubby was waiting in the bar because our table wasn’t ready and invited her to have a drink with us.

Until that moment, I didn’t believe in unicorns

Although her popping in on date night was a bit unconventional, we both liked her and wanted to get to know her better. We’d been sending flirty messages with her all week, so it felt like we were already more than friendly.

The chemistry between us and our husbands was off the charts, and we planned on getting together soon anyway, maybe just not quite this soon. As long as my husband didn’t seem bothered by her forwardness, I welcomed the intrusion.

Her confidence was hot and so was she.

It didn’t matter how I justified it, the warmth and wetness between my legs had already overruled any rational thoughts telling me this was a bad idea.

While we waited for the bartender to make our drinks, Alexa managed to solidify my decision to go for it. As we stood there just out of sight from my husband, she trailed her fingers down my neck and pushed my hair aside, telling me how much she liked my earrings.

Okay, girlfriend clearly has some game and knows what she’s doing. Maybe it was the novelty of a woman being capable of turning me on that really put me over the edge, but I hadn’t felt that electrified in a long time.

Game on

Clearly, she came to flirt, so game on. Grabbing our drinks, we made our way to the corner table where my husband sat waiting.

He looked up as we approached, flashing me the faintest look of confusion as he noticed Alexa behind me. Noticing my visible excitement, his confusion was quickly replaced with a mischievous smile. As I handed him his drink, I leaned down to ask, “Is this okay?” He gave me a quick, but decisive nod and turned to properly greet our new friend.

Once we were settled into our corner table, the three of us picked up where the four of us had left off on our latest group message. Just as I finished my second drink, Alexa shared that her and Mark’s condo was only a few miles away from the restaurant. Smiling at me while she suggestively whispered, “and Mark said I could play unicorn.”

I don’t think there were ever any friends waiting for her at another bar. I think she came here for us.

So this is how a real-life threesome happens

I was convinced this was in a dream. Maybe I had fallen and hit my head on the way to get that round of drinks? After years in the swinging lifestyle, we had yet to experience an honest-to-goodness fully-fledged threesome.

Then all of a sudden this confident and sexy unicorn just drops into our laps.

My husband, appearing a bit bemused by the whole situation. He was clearly turned on by Alexa’s candor as he looked to me for guidance on how to proceed. In all my fantasizing about a threesome, I never imaged it would turn out like this in real life.

Alexa had just shown up and offered herself to us. Screw dinner, I was not about to let this opportunity slip by.

She casually moved her fingers up and down on my thigh as she waited for us to respond to her thinly veiled invitation to play.

She wanted to be our unicorn

I had to keep reminding myself to play it cool. I wasn’t used to being pursued by a woman and as I contemplated our next move, her fingers kept inching higher and higher up my thigh.

A naughty wink from my husband confirmed he was on board. I returned his wink with an excited smile and shared our agreement with Alexa by covering her fingers with mine and guiding them until they were just under my already hiked-up skirt.

A quick moan barely escaped her mouth as her fingers traveled up my inner thigh and grazed my wet lace panties.

As we got up to leave, Alexa gave me a glimpse of what was to come by gently placing her hand on the outside of my hip and pulling me back until our bodies pressed together. Her lips lingered against my neck as she softly proclaimed, “I can’t wait to make you beg.”

…and I did beg.

This is the telling of a real event, but names were changed for privacy.

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