I’ve found that the fantasy is often much sexier than the reality. Especially in group sex or swinging situation.
That doesn’t mean I’m giving up on finding that one in a million opportunity to experience mind-blowing group sex with a bunch of hot people that’s actually satisfying 😉
I also think I’m at a disadvantage geographically…most swingers and kinksters in my area are 55+ and not HWP. It’s hard to live out a fantasy when your options look more like your overweight uncle than any guy you’d ever date 😂